In the theme of grays, if there’s a line between what we deem to be sane and insane, it is both thin and blurry and—more often than not—a product of whether or not we deem action or person to be productive or counter-productive.
A counter-product, inhibition, threat, or malcontent that hears voices in his head has a severe psychological disorder, often forcibly treated with medicine. A product, story, artist that hears voices in his head is creative or inspired.
Sympathy, we believe, is intimately appreciating others’ thoughts, feelings, emotions—a sure sign of sanity. But we sympathize through inner-dialogue, questioning how we might react if in others’ shoes. This inner dialogue, no doubt, is only voices in our head.
And furthermore, sympathy is not conditional to the other—it’s only based on our own personal experience. So, if sympathy involves unadulterated understanding, it’s surely impossible unto itself, since no two people ever experience the exact same set of conditions.
So, in that sense, someone who truly believes himself to be sympathetic must lack a level of rationality that allows him to appreciate his life is different from all others’—therefore, someone who believes himself to truly be sympathetic in this sense is out of touch with reality, quite literally insane.
Selfishness, we believe, is a social disorder, not sharing toys, pushing other people around because they just so happen to be in the way. But selfishness is nothing but the expression of doing what’s best for oneself—surely an instinct in the spirit of the strongest will survive. If we do something that’s perceived as selfless—or, at very least, not selfish—we do it because we view it as ultimately good for us, because we want our progeny to live in a better world where their opportunities to better our genes are better than our chances were.
Or, more simply, we do good because it feels good.
So, truly, someone who acts selflessly in the face of good or survival is essentially going against what it must truly mean to exist.
And what is that, if it is not insanity?
…and I feel like I’ve mentioned all of this before…